2018 gay sex advice
2018 gay sex advice

We Asked Porn Stars How Gay Men Can Have Bangin’ Sex

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We’ve had gay porn stars provide their best sex tips last year, but now we’ve asked some of our favorite gay porn stars and one of our favorite sex vloggers to give us some general gay sex advice. So bust out your bodies and douche bulbs because it’s time to try some new habits for hotter, better sex.

1. Cyd St. Vincent suggests connecting with your sexual power within

2018 gay sex advice 01, Cyd St. Vincent

The bangingest sex that I have is all about the attitude I have going into it. Part of what makes escorts and porn stars so great in bed is that they have the confidence that is built from knowing that someone is paying a lot of money in tribute for their sexuality. It sets you up to want to match and exceed that expectation, and for me that’s really hot.

Of course, most of you aren’t in the sex industry, but it’s about connecting with that feeling. Whoever your sexual partner is, take some time by yourself beforehand to psych yourself up. Maybe talk to yourself in the mirror: Think about how excited this person is to be able to have sex with you — the capacity that you have to create electricity between bodies is enormous.

Through our days, especially with partners that we live with, it can become very difficult to make moments feel new and fresh. This time, I want you to try to open the door and look upon them as someone who you don’t know everything about (because let’s face it, even after a 20-year marriage, you still don’t). This is your time to find out what makes them tick and drive them wild about it.

It’s also your time to ask for the things you want done to your body, boldly and assuredly. A lot of people find it surprising that most of my time doing sex work, I am the recipient of pleasure. People find it incredibly erotic that I know how to pursue what I like out of sex, and often that’s all they want to spend time together doing.

Try to leave behind fears that you’re too needy, or that someone will be doing something begrudgingly. The hottest sexual partners are both generous and selfish, they use enthusiastic body language and verbal cues to establish desire and consent. You don’t make yourself a better sex partner by making yourself less.

Follow Cyd St. Vincent on Twitter @CydStVincent and on Only Fans and see his work on Bonus Hole Boys

 

2. Danny Azcona wants bottoms to prepare for their big night

2018 gay sex advice 03, Dani Azcona

I’m a power bottom and the best tip I can give you is to clean yourself properly with a douche and then what I do is I always have a dildo of considerable size (from seven to nine inches) and a good lubricant to prepare myself before being penetrated. This way I’ll be ready for when the action starts and will enjoy it more without having to worry about the first painful minutes! And as a bottom you can be in control of the situation.

Follow Danny Azcona on Twitter @DannyAzconaxxx and on Instagram @Danny_Azcona

3. Coda Filthy wants you to experiment with new moves

2018 gay sex advice 05, Coda Filthy

My sex tip for a new, amazing 2018 would be to try something different and out of the box! You only have one life, why waste it on the boring same positions?! It’s more fun experimenting with your body than doing the same thing that turns you on. You’ll never know what else would turn you on until you try it.

I have many fetishes and turn-ons from being so open-minded and comfortable with my partners. Don’t be embarrassed; doing new things because sex can be awkward. As long as you have the confidence, you’ll have a fun time.

Follow Coda Filthy on Twitter @codaFILTHY and on Instagram @CodaFilthyOfficial, as well as on his must-see Tumblr, EdgeMeNow

 

4. Dani Robles wants you to set the mood and then ravish your partner

2018 gay sex advice 05, Dani Robles

If you wish to have unforgettable experiences, do what gives you the most excitement. Choose the place when it comes to public encounters, or even create the moment yourself when using jockstraps or other accessories — that always leads the other person to think you enjoy sex in a wild way.

Always be the first one to remove clothes, and make this situation as nasty as possible by spitting inside the mouth, biting the ears and licking his neck. Eat the nipples while you touch him where he has the biggest pleasure. With all this, I can guarantee a great cum shot.

Check out Dani Robles at MenAtPlay.com putting his piggy gay sex tips to use, and follow him on Twitter @daniroblesxy

 

5. Johnny V suggests searching for non-physical joys and newfound toys

2018 gay sex advice 99, Johnny V

My advice is to look for a connection with someone, not only by physical attraction but to look deeper than just sex. Deep down, I am quite the romantic guy, and I know that some guys are strictly driven by their testosterone, but I would definitely have to tell people to go out and find someone you like physically, get to know them and see what else you have in common. This opens up many other doors, rather than just sticking your dick in someone and calling it a day. We come in all different shapes and sizes, and there’s a little bit out there for everyone, but the majority of guys are simply looking to get their rocks off. I think those guys in particular need to re-examine their approach to the entirety of the situation, rather than just “getting off.” Hell, they might even connect with someone on a higher level, have mind-blowing sex and end up with a life partner.

If you want to talk about spicing it up in 2018 and simply how to go about that to “get your rocks off,” I would have to say try something new. Most guys like what they like, but in order to change the pace up, one needs to explore alternate ways to get off and they should definitely experiment. For example, if your partner has never had their ass eaten before, you should most definitely eat their ass! I know that is a simple example, but you get the picture. Or perhaps you should incorporate a toy into the mix. Personally, I enjoy trying new cock rings or ball stretchers while fucking my partner or vice=versa. That excitement alone gets me going — for both myself and the pleasure of my partner.

Follow JohnnyV on Twitter @johnnyv_muscle and on Instagram @JohnnyV_muscle as well as at HotHouse.com, where he’s an exclusive model

 

6. Alex Liu has a plan to free you from STI hell

2018 gay sex advice 02 Alex Liu

If you’re a man planning to have sex with multiple men this year, do these four things:

  1. Get tested every three months.
  2. Get a sex-positive doctor (ideally queer).
  3. Tell your doctor about all the banging sex you plan to have.
  4. Ask your partners about the last time they were tested (and be honest about yours).

You’ll free yourself from a lot of STI-related anxiety and really let yourself go buck wild without much hesitation.

Check out Alex Liu’s documentary A Sexplanation and follow him on Twitter @alexanderxliu