How to Develop Yourself by Traveling to Out-of-the-Box Destinations

How to Develop Yourself by Traveling to Out-of-the-Box Destinations

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One of the best excuses to travel is the opportunity for new experiences, the chance to get out of your personal comfort zone. Outside this zone, an individual meets ‘optimal anxiety’ — a sweet spot of human performance and place where we can develop, grow and succeed. Traveling abroad opens us up to these experiences, with a chance to discover something new — not just about a place, but about ourselves. It’s the chance to change, to grow, to adapt.

An article on The Next Web describes it like this: “Similar to an athlete who has just prepared and warmed up for a big game, optimal anxiety is the space where we are ready to perform at our best.” When you’re ‘in the mode,’ you really feel as if you can do anything, be anything. It’s exhilarating. And sometimes addicting (says the guy who travels for a living!).

Traveling outside your comfort zone — whether it’s a particular place or just a way of traveling — has its advantages and disadvantages. The blog Don’t Worry Just Travelclearly lists them in an easy-to-digest way.

A Game‐Changer in Your Life

Most travelers that have chosen to visit non-mainstream travel destinations (what you might call “off the beaten path”) return home speaking about a “life-changing experience.” An experience abroad they wouldn’t have reached otherwise. Not in school, work or at home. You might roll your eyes hearing about the experience second-hand, but anyone who’s done it — those travelers that have pushed their limits — will know what I’m talking about.

And for those of you who haven’t yet experienced somewhere new, somewhere special, the cure for this existential Wanderlust is pretty easy: YouTube. Working with my friend Itai from, we’ve put together a guide to some top travel destinations where finding a deeper meaning, a reason for personal development (as long as you’re open minded), is possible. We’ve chosen to highlight these off the beaten path experiences not through words, not even our own opinions, but through one of the most effective means for potential travelers to see a place visiting: videos showing their personal, objective stories.



See what happened to this individual girl after visiting the “infamous” Pakistan, the land of alleged danger! She was pleasantly surprised especially after all of the fear coming from her family, friends and strangers advising her not to go.

Musty is a traveller who testifies that it is very important to give an authentic perspective to life. He chose Pakistan to combat any assumptions one may make about the country.

Considering a visit to Pakistan? Visit, the official government tourist portal, for special events or notifications.


This Russian couple capture some of truly beautiful views as they tour around Malta — an astonishing archipelago in the central Mediterranean between Sicily and the North African coast.

Jumping off cliffs isn’t probably something I’d personally do, but in the heat-of-the-moment, off-the-beaten-path and out-of-my-comfort-zone, who really knows? It’s that iconic image of every adventure, exemplifying that thesis when you’re off the beaten path, you can get away with things you couldn’t do in most mainstream, super-touristic places.

Considering a visit to Malta? Check the Official Malta Tourism Authority (MTA)’s website,, for information about holidays in Malta, Gozo and Comino.


Off the beaten path doesn’t necessarily mean ‘no perks’ and less-than-perfect conditions. This video shows it can be done in luxury and style. UK Style, in this case, where this beauty and lifestyle blogger shows how she has reached paradise.

Considering a visit to Maldives? Visit, the official website for the Maldives Tourism Board.


Sometimes the small things can surprise you the most. This vlogger came to explore Liechtenstein. What she saw was beautiful. A walk through the Idyllic Prince’s vineyard and the stunning views from Vaduz castle can be truly inspirational.

Considering a visit to Liechtenstein? Make sure you check out the country’s newtourism brochure 2016.


Global nomad Hazel Lorraine spent five years living and working in Bratislava. This video above shows why she fell in love with the city.

And like so many of Europe’s smaller cities, Christmas is that special, magical time. This couple shows us how magical the holiday season is in Bratislava.

Considering a visit to Bratislava? Check out for travel news, events and some stunning videos of the city.


This traveler decided that being unique allows him to ‘freestyle’ and that applies to nightlife as well, so he crawls around a couple of clubs in Belgrade, Serbia, which boasts some of the best, non-mainstream nightlife in Europe.

Considering a visit to Serbia? Check out the National Tourism Organisation of Serbiafor useful travel info.


There’s a lot more to Israel than what you see on the news. Many are afraid to go there, and others see it as increasingly expensive. Last October, I visited with a strict budget of just 69€ a day (including accommodation!). How was it? In the video, you’ll hear my answer: “I had maybe too much fun…”

When you’ve chosen to visit truly unique and special places, you’re going to see and experience things that you can’t find anywhere else in the world. In Israel, that likely means visiting the lowest place on Earth and bonding with some very healthy mud, as shown here in this video blog from Dead Sea:

Considering a visit to Israel? First, don’t take it personally when you encounter possible security checks at the airport. Second, check out the official site of theMinistry of Tourism for important information before you go. Explore more about Israel here on


One of the best ways to truly explore a new travel destination, and to grow personally, is by speaking directly with locals. During my first visit to Slovenia, my friends from The Travel Mob covered the capital of Slovenia by learning about it from real people with candid answers.

Adventures in Slovenia, anyone? Chloe Gunning a.k.a. Wanderlust Chloe loves to travel all over the world and has spent the last few years on some serious adventures. In a very pleasant and authentic video blog, she unveils some of the beauty of this impressive country.

Considering an adventure in Slovenia? Hop over to, the government’s official gateway for information on Slovenia.


Kyle is a Vietnamese-American traveler that voices his honest opinion of this trip through Nepal: “This is a must visit even if you’re not Buddhist or Hindu. This was definitely one of the most unique experience I’ve ever had.”

Considering a trip to Nepal? Visit the official site of the Nepal’s Ministry of Culture, Tourism and Civil Aviation.


Germany is one of the world’s most popular destinations — and rightfully so! Still, touring this great country doesn’t just start and end in Berlin, as Samuel and Audrey show in their travel diary while experiencing nature, wildlife, local artists, healthy sauna experiences and
even… penguins (!) off the beaten path at Spreewelten. Travel can certainly be relaxing and surprising at the same time.

Considering a trip to Germany? Visit the German National Tourist Board to explore the history and culture of the country of Germany. Site includes event information, virtual tours and specials. Explore more of Germany here on


Populated by a human cocktail mix of Portuguese, Africans, French, Dutch, Spanish, Japanese and German, Brazil is still one of the most popular drinks on the globe. This road trip video diary has a great beat and present the many captivating angles of Brazil’s diversity, freedom, sun and fun.

Are YOU ready?

These personal video stories show us that there is another way to travel. Another way to seek exploration, adventure and personal growth experiences. So… come on, get up and go do something about it. Perhaps that next unique travel diary will be yours!

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