‘The Joy of Gay Sex’ Is 44 Years Old. Let’s Celebrate Its Provocative Illustrations

If you had a sex education class in your school at all, chances are it was incredibly un-sexy, hetero-centric and focused on zygotes, fetal development and abstinence — that is, nothing that would actually help you get laid. The lack of sex education back in 1977, particularly for gay and bisexual men, likely compelled Dr. Charles Silverstein to create The Joy of Gay Sex.

The 207-page book served as a how-to guide with chapters on blowjobs, cruising and dirty talk, a gay Kama Sutra with suggested sex positions like “the crab” and a cultural guide with non-sexual chapters on the realities of coming out, gay politics, racism and more.

The book also challenged audiences with chapters covering fisting, JO clubs and watersports — fetishes you’d rarely see in gay porn or anywhere else at the time — potentially offensive sections on sex with animals and teenagers and sections exploring the diversity within the gay community, with entries for bisexuality, transgender and mixed HIV couples.

This article was originally published on April 10, 2020. It has since been updated.

In short, The Joy of Gay Sex provided a lot more than just sex tips; it provided a social education to help gay men deal with complex psychological and social issues while pushing even further into sexual content and social ideas unlike anything ever published.

Most infamously, Silverstein and his co-author, celebrated gay novelist Edmund White, wanted the book to be sexually stimulating. So the original and subsequent editions all contained explicit illustrations styled after popular sex comics of the time. The unabashed drawings of erect penises, willing bottoms and group scenes got the book banned in libraries and bookstores across North America and England.

Though the original edition is now out of print, Silverstein and gay novelist Felice Picano released a second and third edition in 1992 and 2003. By 1992, the HIV epidemic had made the book’s creators reexamine the importance of celebrating gay sex in an age when anal sex could kill you, and by 2003, the internet had made it easier than ever for gay men and sex fetishists to hook up and celebrate the joy of literal gay sex.

Silverstein has since gone on to win numerous awards from the American Psychological Association for his professional contributions to gay psychological health — he still runs a private practice in New York City.

Check out even more sketches for the first edition of Joy of Gay Sex:

 

Have you ever read the Joy of Gay Sex? Which editions have you read? Enjoy the illustrations? Let us know!

This article was originally published on December 11, 2020. It has since been updated.